Friday, January 28, 2011

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

I desire to be that woman

As I was going through all my saved bible studies this morning, I came across this wonderful article written by Debie Pearl from No Greater Joy Ministries. I remember reading it about two years ago and being greatly encouraged by her words and wanting to became that woman from Proverbs chapter 14 verse 1 that builds her house.

"Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands." (Proverbs 14:1)

A Wise Woman builds her house

Article by Debi Pearl, May 2001

A wise woman doesn’t take anything for granted. She is thankful to be loved and seeks to make herself more lovely.



A wise woman doesn’t allow herself to be a liability but strives to be an asset to the marriage bond. She looks for ways to make, save, and use money wisely. Her husband knows he is a richer man because she is his wife.


A wise woman seeks to be a part of her husband’s life. His interest becomes her interest. She looks for ways to help him in every endeavor in which he is involved. When he needs a helping hand, it is her hand that is there first.


A wise woman knows that his peace of mind (and sometimes, wise understanding) is something she can give or take away by her observations and conversation concerning circumstances or people. She limits her conversation to the positive.


A wise woman sets a joyful mood in the household. She uses laughter, music and happy times to stir the children to a positive, joyful frame of mind. She knows this light-heartedness helps take stress off her husband.


A wise woman gauges her husband’s needs. She seeks to fulfill his desires before even he is aware of them. She never leaves him daydreaming outside the home. She supplies his every desire.


A wise woman understands that her husband’s need to be honored is not based on his performance but on his position. She learns quickly to defer with enthusiasm to his ideas or plans. She looks for ways to reverence him. She knows this is God’s will for her life.


A wise woman is not pitiful, puny, or whinny. She seeks to be confident, capable and thankful.

A wise woman does not dream of what “could have been.” She sees clearly that she is not God’s gift to men; thus she is blessed in her present circumstances. She learns to be content.


A wise woman never expects anyone to serve her; therefore she is never disappointed. She is ready to help—a giver. By her example her children learn to serve cheerfully and energetically.

A wise woman doesn’t attempt to instruct her husband through feigned questions. Her questions are sincere inquiries concerning his will.


A wise woman is always learning. She is open to change. She is ready to hear. She wants to know. She doesn’t cloud her mind with the foolish folly of entertainment. She uses her time wisely.



After reading the article again, I realized that I have a lot of growing to do, but thank be to God that he provides His written word; the bible. In Titus chapter 2 verse 5, Paul exhorts women to be " discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to own husbands so that the word of God be not blasphemed." I need to apply all of the above in my life daily and be a builder of my home for God’s glory.




Thursday, December 17, 2009

My Lil' Drummer Boy

What a joyful evening we had at Plantation Middle School on Tuesday December 15. The Middle School Band played wonderful music for all of us proud parents. What can I say; the performance was spectacular. The kids and Ms. Crotty practiced very hard and my son William did an awesome job playing the Snare Drums for the Advanced Band.

My not so little Drummer Boy










William with friend Tyler

I ♥ this picture of William and his friends


After the concert


William and David


William also participated in the Merengue dance, performed by the 7th grade Spanish Club.


Dancing the Merengue with Maria





The end of the dance

He's actually my same height


With Dad


Jared also came to see his big brother perform


I really enjoyed the evening. I thank God for my lil’ Drummer Boy!!!

“For ye are all the children of God by faith in Christ Jesus.” Galatians 3:26

Sunday, October 25, 2009

Happy 5th Birthday Miss Maddy

Happy Birthday to my precious daughter Madelyn Rose in heaven above!!!

Today is your birthday Maddy Moo. Five years ago today, I was in the hospital getting ready for your arrival into this world. What a happy, happy day it was for all of us.

Four years ago today, we celebrated your 1st Birthday with Care Bears and no electricity because of Hurricane Wilma. What a crazy but fun time we had with family and friends eating pizza and lots of candy in the dark.

Three years ago today, we celebrated your 2nd and last birthday here on earth with lollipops and fairies. What a magical time you had opening presents and playing with your new toys.

I miss you so much Maddy Moo. I can't wait to be with you so we can celebrate all your birthdays together again. I love you Miss Maddy ♥

In hope of eternal life, which God, that cannot lie, promised before the world began. (Titus 1:2)




For I reckon that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us. (Romans 8:18)

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Friday, August 28, 2009

A work in progress...

Back in February, (the day of my wedding anniversary; February 25 to be exact), I had a grease fire in my kitchen and some of my almost brand new cabinets burned including my microwave and stove.



Finally, after months of planning and redesigning my very small kitchen space (no need to mention square footage), here is the end result.







I'm still missing few details: more crown molding, baseboard and of course more wood embellishments for my so functional but plain island. In all honesty, I'm not done yet. As a matter of fact, I'll never be done with fixing and decorating my home. It's a work in progress 'til the day I take my last breath.

But for right now, I'm very pleased with my creation.

Saturday, May 30, 2009

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Four generations celebrating together

Since the birth of my first child Jacquelyn; 13 1/2 years ago; I have been wanting to take a picture of the four generations of women in the family. Finally this year; on mother's day; I was able to get my side of the family together and take the picture. From left to right is my daughter Jacquelyn, myself, my mother Amparo and my grandmother Milagros.




We had a blessed Mother's Day. My mother invited the family over to her house in Homestead and with the help of my grandmother and aunt, she prepared all the food for a very nice and relaxing mother's day luncheon. Here are some of the pictures:




















Friday, May 1, 2009

Having Fun Friday

Sunday, April 12, 2009

Easter Sunday

We went to church on Sunday around 8:30 am, because the children needed to practice their play one more time before the service. The play was about the resurrection of Jesus. Jacquelyn was Salome, William was the narrator and Jared was a flower from the field.











Jared and Tyler had the longest part in the play and they memorized everything before Sunday. William had the easiest part, being the narrator he was just reading from the paper. And Jacquelyn waited until the last minute to memorize her part. At the end it was a beautiful play.



Saturday, April 11, 2009

Spring Break

What an awesome Spring Break we had!

For the last 3 years during Spring Break my amazing daughter Jacquelyn volunteers her time at Brookwood Gardens Convalescent Center in Homestead. Every year she dedicates 40 hours of her spring break to serve at the nursing home. That nursing home is very special to me and Jacquelyn knows that. I worked there from the time I was 16 until I graduated from college. Now my daughter that has been visiting the same nursing home since she was born works there as a volunteer - I'm so proud of her! The Staff and residents really appreciate her help, love and dedication.




While Jacquelyn was serving the community, I decided to take the boys to Tampa to visit with family and friends. Jack was already in Tampa helping his sisters with the new homes.

Bonnie's House


Peggy's House





Ok, so we stayed at my mother-in-law's house in Apollo Beach from Monday through Friday and had a great time; she has a beautiful coastal home. On Wednesday, I took Jared and William to the Ranch (where my two sister-in-law's new homes are being built) and they went fishing and hunting behind the property with their cousins John Henry, Chandler and Makayla while Jack & I spent some time with his father and his two brother-in-laws.




On Thursday, we went to visit my sweet friend Monica in St. Petersburg and spent the day at Fort De Soto Beach.



























What a beautiful beach they have and it's free; you don't have to pay to get in. And there weren't a million people like we get here in Ft. Lauderdale Beaches. The kids love swimming in the golf waters. They got to see dolphins very close. They collected sea shells and star fish. They ate shell fish right out of the ocean; we even have videos to prove it. They said that the mussels and clams taste really good and fresh; I have to agree with them. We had a great time fellowshipping and talking about the Lord. At times we would just sit quiet admiring all the beauty that our awesome God created. We ended our day with a delicious meal prepared by Monica's mom and aunt (they were visiting form Dominican Republic). We just didn't want the day to end.



The next day Friday, I took the boys to the Ellenton Outlet Mall to buy new shoes for school. We all got home Friday afternoon, including Jacquelyn. On Sunday the kids are performing in a play about the resurrection at the church. I will be posting the video and pictures.